So You’re Curious: Before You Embark on Your Ass-Play Adventures 

You’ve read in magazines about the delights men can experience when exploring their backsides. You’ve overheard guys in the gym locker room intensely discussing with their buddies what their girlfriends did to their asses last night and how unbelievably amazing it felt. Of course, we all know you’ve seen it in both printed and video porn – and, contrary to the beliefs of many a man –no- it is definitely not confined to gay porn, but is also very much a straight porn subject. While in so many interpersonal relationships, women and men alike view it as a taboo topic, it is nonetheless on the secret wishlist of more men than the majority of society could ever fathom. This yummy no-no is ass-play, and I would like to assuage your fears and concerns and address your questions regarding this particular form of stimulation, of which you can partake alone or with the assistance of another. 

First, I would like to immediately dispel the widespread, nasty, and completely false myth that a man who relishes ass-play –whether alone or with the involvement of a female companion- is either in denial or hiding something about his sexuality. Some incredibly uninformed people mistakenly think that a male who enjoys having his ass stimulated and penetrated must certainly be a closet homosexual. This is nothing more than an urban myth whose reinforcement is perpetuated by homophobia. Gay men do not own the ass-play market – and why should they? Each of us –male and female alike- was born with an ass –our very own bottom end- and we are all free to enjoy our own bodies to the extent that we feel comfortable. So you’re a man. You’re a man who derives enormous fulfillment and excitement by being attentive to the pleasure point upon which he has been seated his entire life. That fact has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual orientation. It simply means there is yet another part of your body what brings you pleasure. 

Next, you’re unsure exactly where and how to begin your anal explorations. The first thing you can do is utilize Google and do some independent research. Of course, be certain you take notice of and scrutinize from where you are obtaining your information. While there are some excellent, still sexy, and very educational sites where you can gather information on taking your first steps into the Land of Anal Play, be mindful of the author(s) and/or source of the site so you can assess whether the information provided is legitimate and valid, as you really do not want to be taking ass advice from someone who is less than educated on what is helpful or harmful. You need to know that you are being appropriately informed. 

It is incredibly useful for you to begin with and have at least a minimal degree of knowledge on the anatomy of your bum, so you know how to better and more safely approach your initial –and even progressively more advanced- efforts at integrating ass-play into your playtime. You can gather ideas on where to begin –depending upon with what it is that you feel more comfortable- as far as using digital methods versus toys. You begin with the basics –something smaller and easier to accommodate- and you go from there. Pay close attention to your body and proceed accordingly. If you are patient and mindful of your body’s signals, everything will fall into place, and you will find your own unique comfort and advancement levels.  

With the proper mindset and diligent practice, you will become more familiar with your own body, and you will be the Master of your own domain in no time…